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Volunteer Spotlight: James Orrange

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James Orrange

AFSP New Jersey September Volunteer Spotlight

September marks Suicide Prevention Month – a time to raise awareness, foster connection, and remind one another that help is always within reach. At AFSP New Jersey, we believe in the power of community and the impact of those who choose to show up, listen, and stand beside others in their darkest moments. Today, we’re proud to spotlight one such person whose dedication and lived experience have become a powerful force for change, James Orrange. His story is not only one of resilience, but of purpose – and it’s one we’re honored to share.

James Orrange
James Orrange at the Jersey Shore Walk

James’ Journey

In June 2016 I tragically lost my baby brother Jared to suicide. He was 38 years old. My entire family was rocked, I was in shock, and it felt like my entire world fell apart. My previous PTSD from combat as an Army veteran exacerbated the trauma for myself and my family, leading to significant struggles. I told him I would protect him. The guilt I felt was so heavy, but yet I still had to go on as a father figure in my family. Through a long and arduous journey, I have reached a place where I am now able and willing to help others. 

Jared was full of life, always smiling, bringing joy to so many and loved by all who knew him. Like others who are on this journey, I wondered why, what signs did I miss, what could I have done.

James Orrange and Jared
James and Jared

Volunteering with the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention has become more than just a way to give back—it’s become a part of who I am. I have served as a volunteer at the Jersey Shore Out of the Darkness Walk for 4 years. I had the privilege and honor of serving as a committee chairman at the event last year which was an incredible experience. I have also added Healing Conversations, Table Talks and most recently AFSP CONNECTS Veterans to my volunteer commitment to the New Jersey Chapter. I’ve poured my time, energy, and heart into every opportunity to serve. I show up. I genuinely care about the mission, and I bring enthusiasm and empathy to every interaction.

What initially may have started as a distraction and escape from my pain and grief has now become a passion of mine. And why I keep doing it. AFSP has helped me through a dark time in my life when I lost my brother. I want to honor him and help others who feel like there is no hope especially in the African American community and Veterans community.

“I volunteer in memory of my brother. I want others to know they’re not alone, and that there is help, hope, and healing. Every time I speak out or lend a hand, I feel like I’m keeping his spirit alive."

Get Involved

Stories like James’ remind us that change begins with one person choosing to care. Whether you’ve been personally impacted by suicide or simply want to be part of a compassionate community making a difference, there’s a place for you here. Volunteering with AFSP New Jersey means showing up for others, and sometimes that’s the most powerful thing we can do. If you’re ready to lend your time, your voice, or your heart, we invite you to take the first step. Apply to volunteer today.